Within Islam Marriage is a heavy contract with rights and responsibilities on all sides. It’s like a family business with Heavenly Father and Our Love for each other at the center of it. Throughout the history of Islam, there have been many battles and wars that men did not return from. Because of this and the Islamic principle that Our Sisters of the faith shouldn’t have to Jihad (struggle for righteousness) alone. As Islamic Men or God, one of our responsibilities is to uplift Our Sisters and especially Our Wives. As a husband you replace a Lady’s Father in terms of protecting her honor, and well being, providing for her essential needs and encouraging her growth from day to day. This is a responsibility we answer to God for as husbands, it’s a part of the contract. Now within most Islamic tribes and communities there are networks in which one seeking a significant other can find them.
This means that widows and single ladies that need a Righteous husband could find one and rather than generations of single parents homes, you’d have 2 or 3 or more people, all on one accord, establishing foundations of generational prosperity and prestige. Now the ways in which a polygamist marriage works, depends on the people within the marriage but typically the 1st wife has to approve of the 2nd wife, and a 3rd would have to be approved by the 1st and 2nd wives as known as Sister Wives and through honesty and communication everyone involved can have their wants and needs met, while working together in honoring Our Heavenly Father.
Though most people in the USA minds automatically go to sex, it’s a lot more to being married than just that. If you consider the amount of single parent homes in our communities and the school to prison pipeline it created, you can see that Judea Christian marriages aren’t working for our people and rather than bringing Our Sisters together it typically forces them into even more combative and competitive circumstances with it already being more women than men on earth, add to that the amount of people who are actually compatible and all the games played in the dating arena and it’s obvious there has to be a better solution. In Islam, honorable Polygamy is one of the solutions those mature enough for it can utilize to assist us in taking care of the Ummah (The Family of Believers/ God’s People)
Islam means peace or submission, as in to be at Peace with God and or in submission to the will of God.(Inshallah) To anyone who is unfamiliar with Islam and would like to know more, I’d recommend going to your local mosque and meeting the Iman. Ask all the questions you, be respectful and should your spirit vibe with it plus be encouraged in your dean, your commitment to God, and stay focused. I’m only adding this here because I know how abusive many people in this world are and if you don’t have a proper understanding of The Faith, that ignorance can be used by our enemies and/or those who use religion as a means of exploitation. When you go to the mosque, seeking a better understanding of God, you are family. Respect the Ummah and spread the love and unity as you continue to grow in your faith and remember to trust but verify and to do your own research.
I think it is also important to mention that in Islam, one can only marry an Islamic person and the reason this is important is because if you are sincere in your faith, it’ll take an Islamic person to be able to walk with you and understand your commitment to Our Heavenly Father. This also reduces the risk of us falling in love with an agent of the opposition often sent into our lives appearing as a love interest but oftentimes are actually spies carrying out a close embrace strategy. This tactic of using women to compromise and control men is as old as the Bible and there’s a reason most Free Men don’t date church women anymore. Though the argument that ones faith doesn’t define them, in Islam it does. So as an added guard against the schemes of our enemies, and in the interest of the Ummah building families within the Ummah, Our Heavenly Father made it so only those who actually serve Him (Islam) can marry each other.
In saying all of that, please allow me to also say that your walk with God is your own and even though different religions have different walks of faith, whatever path The Heavenly Father calls you to follow is the one you should be on. I have a unique walk with God and rather than mislead people I point them to God. In Islam we follow Our Heavenly Father, not man. Now as for the people who say if a man can have multiple wives, why can’t a woman have multiple husbands? Technically she can buy not typically in Islam and mathematically speaking, women already outnumber men. If we are talking about Nation or Kingdom building, the man is a 0 and the woman is a 1. The 0 being the infinite amount of sperm one man has and 1 being the ability to reproduce that women have.
One woman with three husbands equals 1000 which is only a 1 being she can only carry one pregnancy at a time.
One man with three wives is 0111 which is a 3 being they can carry 3 pregnancies at a time. This means in theory, the nation with one man and 3 wives has the potential to grow 3 times as fast as the other.
Some get it some don’t but everything ain’t for everybody. If you’re interested in an Islamic Marriage, I’d recommend praying about it, doing your research and finding the right person to build your tribe with. Historically Polygamy has plenty of ways in which it can be used. Everything from everyone living in the same house to each wife having her own, all adults working and managing finances independently to everyone working for a family owned business for the children’s inheritance. There’s even a King who once considered a child’s mother his gift to the child and so he would only have one child with each wife and allowed her to devote her life to child development. I know in today’s society that’s seen as a misogynistic or sexes ideology but if that’s the life the women in that marriage wanted, imagine being that child who has a mother for real. She didn’t have to work, didn’t have to stress about bills or none of that. A free woman devoted to her childs well-being. Sounds divine to me. As long as it’s centered on Our Heavenly Father and the terms / rights and responsibilities of the people in the marriage are honorable and respectful in the Light of Our Heavenly Father.
Your Brother in Love and Truth
Rakeem G. Rivers
The Riverside Alchemist
When you watch the documentary linked in the photo below, focus on what we taught Europeans, from mathematics, to architecture, to the things we brought like the original Hebrew and Greek scriptures, better hygiene practices, glassware, human rights etc. all of which caused many Europeans to leave the Catholic Church due to the Pope pretending to be God and the idolatry created by the Jesus character in the Council of Nicea. Because we brought the original scriptures, Europeans were able to see what the Pope had changed for themselves. This is what led to the Spanish Inquisition and to the Catholics coming across our maps and setting sail for the Western Hemisphere where over 80% of us were already before Christopher Columbus was even born. This is why they don’t wanna teach true history to The People, only colonial ideologies and systems. Part of being free is breaking away from colonial teachings.
PS: If you’re interested in getting to know me better and building a family with me, just message me on discord at: SayLaV727 and state your intentions.
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