
Marriage is a heavy contract with rights and responsibilities on all sides. It’s like a family business with Heavenly Father and Our Love for each other at the center of it. Throughout the history of Islam, there have been many battles and wars that men did not return from. Because of this and the Islamic principle that Our Sisters of the faith shouldn’t have to Jihad (struggle for righteousness) alone. As Islamic Men or God, one of our responsibilities is to uplift Our Sisters and especially Our Wives. As a husband you replace a Lady’s Father in terms of protecting her honor, and well being, providing for her essential needs and encouraging her growth from day to day. This is a responsibility we answer to God for as husbands, it’s a part of the contract. Now within most Islamic tribes and communities there are networks in which one seeking a significant other can find them.
This means that widows and single ladies that need a Righteous husband could find one and rather than generations of single parents homes, you’d have 2 or 3 or more people, all on one accord, establishing foundations of generational prosperity and prestige. Now the ways in which a polygamist marriage works, depends on the people within the marriage but typically the 1st wife has to approve of the 2nd wife, and a 3rd would have to be approved by the 1st and 2nd wives as known as Sister Wives and through honesty and communication everyone involved can have their wants and needs met, while working together in honoring Our Heavenly Father.
Though most people in the USA minds automatically go to sex, it’s a lot more to being married than just that. If you consider the amount of single parent homes in our communities and the school to prison pipeline it created, you can see that judea Christian marriages aren’t working for our people and rather than bringing Our Sisters together it typically forces them into even more combative and competitive circumstances with it already being more men than women in earth.